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Guide to Recovering from PTSD
Contents

Introduction

Anger

Anxiety

Chronic Pain


Compulsion

Confusion

Crisis

Delusions

Denial

Dependence

Depression

Grief

Guilt

Loneliness

Negative Self-Concept
(Low Self Esteem)


Obesity

Obsessions

Passive-Agressive
Behavior


Phobia


Rape Trauma Syndrome

Sleep Disorders

Substance Abuse

Suicidal Behavior
or Ideation


Suspiciousness/Paranoia

Withdrawn Behavior

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Stephanie Laite Lanham

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M. V. Pelecis


What is obesity?

The trouble is, pain that deep cannot be satiated.  The hunger will return.  There is a feeling of lack of control, pain, self-loathing, more hunger, more pain; lack of control, the feeling of fullness doesn’t last for long. 

Obesity is defined as being 15% above the established norm of body fat distribution.  Living with obesity can affect the veteran and family significantly.  Some adjust well, but all run the risk of serious physical complications such as diabetes, heart disease, stroke, high cholesterol, osteoporosis, or skeletal problems.  Emotional difficulties such as anger, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, guilt or frustration, are frequently experienced by the veteran or family.

Some over eat as a negative coping skill to recover feelings of stress, anxiety, grief, or any feeling with which they cannot or have not coped.  The food abuser is literally feeding the pain. Some overeaters purge after eating by vomiting or using laxatives.  This is called bulimia and requires specific, specialized treatment.  Vet Center staff can help you with a referral to the appropriate professional.  The internet has many websites, but take care to stay with sites that are endorsed by reputable medical and psychiatric professionals.  This is why you are encouraged to begin at the Vet Centers.  They are a safe place to start. 

 

What can I do to gain control over my overeating?

Gaining insight into why you overeat is a process.  You need to learn why you crave foods that are not good for you or increase your weight and what triggers your over eating.  You need to want to make changes knowing some of the changes will not be easy.  Basic changes will be to find a food plan that works for your lifestyle.  Remember, you are in this for the long haul.  Avoid eating when you are anxious, between meals or after 6 P.M.  Try to drink 6 to 8 glasses of water a day and limit caffeinated beverages to 1 or 2 cups of tea or coffee daily.  Learn, with your counselor's support, to take control of your life, daily activities, begin a new hobby, join and exercise group or try walking daily.  Share your thoughts and feelings with significant others in your life and ask for help!  Read about foods to learn the truth on labels.  You may be surprised at the actual contents.  Try rewarding yourself in non-food ways when things are going well.  Increase social interactions, make positive self-statements even if they are small and you are not sure you believe them at first.  If you are positive repeatedly, you will eventually believe what you are saying.

Obesity can be a prison for some.  If it is that for you, there is help.  If you are abusing food in any way, there is help and understanding.  If you do not get the support or answers you need, keep asking until you do!  Your good health is worth the seeking.  Your healthy self is in there.